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Author: arronbond Subject: What's your reason?????
Natrualbeauty
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posted on 01-25-2006 at 16:56 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
What's your reason?????

I was just wondering what are some of the reason that you are still a virgin?
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posted on 01-26-2006 at 00:11 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
you read my mind

I was kind of curious myself and almost started a string like this.

Anyway, I guess I'll start this off. I decided to stay virgin when I was <10 years old. It was orginally religious. I went to a Lutheran church (about as close as you can get to Catholic) so I had a healthy fear of God's rath. However, My decision and resolve have only grown. All the couples I saw around me were breaking up because once the sexual passion was gone they had no reason to stay together. So I decided I wanted to have a strong bond with a woman before we get to that level.

I hope more people find the courage to post here. By the way I was wondering you never said your reason Natrualbeauty. Why did you remain a virgin for so long?
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posted on 01-26-2006 at 16:31 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
I don't know

I think my reason for me not having sex yet is I never really had that much time for a boyfriend I was so in to afterschool activities.Boys thought that I was stuck up.I had boyfriends but they never got to much of my time.When they did get some time and found out I wasn't experience it didn't go that far they broke up with me.I never plan on being virgin this long to be honest.I always plan on losing my virginity on prom night.I'm glad I waited now I know I wasn't missing anything.
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posted on 02-07-2006 at 17:15 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
the truth

my reason is i was always a loner in school still am but apart from that im still one ugly fucker i had sex with a male freind doe that count ive got pics to prove im that ugly honest add me to msn for proof bottom11@hotmail.co.uk
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posted on 02-07-2006 at 20:10 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
virgin

Im still one because I still waiting for the right guy, even though I have had boyfriends interested in more. I want to to be a sweet and unforgetable experience.
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posted on 02-15-2006 at 02:09 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
huh...

well.... where do i start. every single woman that i've ever admired has rejected me upon asking her out. ive never had a date. girls seem to not like me. im almost 20 years old and im lonely. thats why ive waited.... or been forced to i guess... wow, writing this makes me realize why women dont like me
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posted on 02-17-2006 at 23:35 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
well...it's not religous, that's for sure.

Hmm...I'm a 22 year old female...and a virgin.

For me...I dated a guy all through high school, when we got into college, I was considering on losing my virginity to him. However, he then cheated on me with another girl. So that solved my dillemma. I haven't found another guy after that...cos I'm afraid to date and now, i'm just afraid of going out with any guy now because I'm still a virgin. LIke it's expected to sleep with a guy within a month or two...probably before that. No way would I ever do that.

I'm trying to get over my hurt and fears, though. it's frustrating. But there's no way I would ever sleep with a guy just to get it over with.
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posted on 02-19-2006 at 00:47 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
glad i waited

I'm a 35 year old virgin because i haven't found the right man.I'm reading some of the women stories on the board.I'm glad i waited. I could never let a man pressure me into sex or have sex just to keep a man.
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posted on 02-19-2006 at 11:28 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
my reason

I waited because I respect my mom so much and she waited until she was married to sleep with my dad. They love and respect each other so much and I want to find that kind of relationship. I've dated lots of guys, had a 7month relationship that actually didn't end because I was a virgin, which was nice as it was the first relationship that didn't end becaus of that for me!! It's hard when you have values that very few people share to find the right man. Lots of guys and girls wnat to test out the merchandise before they buy it if you know what I mean, and I just can't offer that to anybody, if the merchandise gets tested too much then it's no longer new right? LOL Anyway, sorry, that's kidnof cheezy, I fully made that up on the spot. I'm just saying that I don't blame anybody who wants to have sex with somebody before sealing the deal and getting married because sex might be a very important aspect of their marriage, I just can't offer that to people as I guess sex is nto as importnat to me as having soembody that loves me unconditionally, respects me and makes me laugh, only so that I can return it all to him. I want a family man, not a sex crazed guy, although I wouldn't mind... I'm sure I'll love sex when the time comes, I definitely love everything else Ive done which is everything but sex... lol. Anyways, so yes, that's why I've waited, it has been jammed in my head since a kid, to wait. Even though soemtimes I feel left out and scared aboutthe future, when it comes down to it, I'm luck y that I've had such great role-models.
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posted on 04-16-2006 at 00:43 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
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MY REASON FOR STILL BEING A VIRGIN IS MY PARENTS. THEY EXPECT SO MUCH FROM ME AND I'M ALSO AFARID OF HAVING A BABY.
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posted on 04-16-2006 at 04:19 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Why are You?

Text Confuse, you stated that you did not want to disappoint your parents and did not want to have a baby. I also would share the same feelings and also some religious moral values. I have often times wondered how a girl would make the announcement of pregnacy to her parents. Surely it would be something other than at the breakfast table to say,"Hey Mom I am pregnant!" anybody had a pregnacy while single? How did you tell folks? (:)
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posted on 04-16-2006 at 05:47 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
?

nice to see ya moonlite!! have not seen you in a while?
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posted on 04-16-2006 at 19:17 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
My reason

I have a relativley good reason: I have psychriatric issues. Depression , anxiety, low self esteem I have been under the doctor for years. Besides that i'm a regular guy but those things are enough to effect my ability to Trust and get close to people but i'd rather have an intimate encounter with someone as to which it actually meant something rather than get my end away with some cheap tart who probably has all kinds of STD's from getting with different guys every weekend.
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posted on 04-17-2006 at 16:58 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
reason

omg im only a virgin cause i have no boyfriend and never have had one and im kinda lonly
i dont want to sound like a slut but im movin farfar away in july so im hoppin to lose it by then even if im only 15 :I
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posted on 04-17-2006 at 17:13 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Hiya

Well "still" maybe if ya come over to Ireland all that will change *wink*,anyway do ya wanna talk am on yahoo and msn.Am confident Ill lose it this summer though as i have a plan up my sleeve.
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posted on 04-22-2006 at 14:39 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
hmm

this site scares me
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posted on 04-29-2006 at 18:39 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
who hoo

ha ha to you all
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