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Author: Trivi Subject: If Your Parents Divorced, Please Share
XO_stepdad
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posted on 02-22-2010 at 14:11 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
If Your Parents Divorced, Please Share

Hello, I am dealing with some personal issues right now and am wondering if anybody who has experienced their parents' divorce has any advice or general wisdom to impart. If you have something to say that might be helpful, I am sure I'm not the only one here who would benefit from it. Thanks!
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posted on 04-27-2010 at 13:39 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
advice anyone ?

This is like exactly what have been dealing with and came onto this kind of site for, does anybody have any advice? I did not have problems with my parents divorcing or anything like that but I am nervous that my marriage might be on the rocks and our kid could be affected the most, that is just terrfying because it feels so selfish. on the other hand we deserve to be happy ourselves and shouldnt stick together in some fake marriage. we are not at that point yet, and i hope things get better i just worry about my boy so much its hard to ignore

who has dealt with this?
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posted on 06-22-2010 at 09:38 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
keep it honest

I just know that, no matter what happens, you can never allow your children to believe that they are the reason for your divorce.

a lot of kids will just think that automatically for reasons they make up in their head so be clear about what is happening, if that ever occurs.

I hope you and your wife find a way to connect once again, I understand what you are going through completely in that way. time goes by and we learn so much about each other, we are bound to dislike quite a few things.

you hafta remenber whats most important in life and the genuine reasons why you love your wife in the first place, if she does the same you guys could be on your way
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posted on 10-17-2011 at 22:14 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
why should they suffer emotionally..?

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posted on 10-04-2012 at 13:09 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
shameful

It's completely shameful the ways people treat their kids through divorce and it comes down to the fact that everyeone is just so self-centered in their own lives. They cannot think outside of themselves to realize what htye are doing to their children.

I hope i never am divorced but if i am and I have kids they will never think to blame themselves, at least as long as i can help it
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